Being an Aunt

 

There was a story in the Wall Street Journal yesterday called Be the Favorite Aunt or Uncle You Were Destined To Be. Appropriate since I babysat last night. It tells about a girl who knew where to turn for a breakup, for feeling safe, for love and wanting what’s best for her. Aunts and uncles can be like a second set of adults who care deeply. Caring aunts and uncles play vital roles in a family. They are mentors who offer perspectives and experiences. They listen without judgement. Almost every niece or nephew claims a “fun one.”  This one gets down on the floor, reads, attends their birthday parties and often travels with them. I haven’t with the greats yet, but for the ones who live here I sprung for New York City and Boston and Maine.  I would never underestimate their parents’ permission. Here is one thing from the story that has yet to take place. My photo on their fridge! LOL. The person is the story said truth is expected and communication is NOT by text. If the parents need to know something, find a way to make the niece of nephew tell them. Needing help is not a sign of weakness. They can ask about boyfriends, school and careers. They don’t have to listen to aunts and uncles, of course. The girl in the story always thought she would grow up to be a cool person because her aunt and uncle loved her. I hope the same.