Arthur Blessitt Carries Cross to Every Country

First off, this guy has a cool name. I heard about him on Joel Osteen. Arthur Blessitt, 74, has carried on foot a 12-foot cross for Jesus to every country on earth since Dec. 25, 1969. Through wars, deserts, jungles--over 41,323 miles. The Guinness Book of World Records lists this as The World’s Longest Walk. This modern day pilgrim has faced a firing squad in Nicaragua, was almost stoned in Morocco, attacked by police in Spain, almost choked in Hollywood, survived a pistol attack in Florida and a man in Indiana tried to burn the cross. He has been arrested 24 times, been through 54 countries at war, fasted 40 days, run for President of the United States from 1974 to 1976  and has walked with 70,000 people across Poland. Billy Graham has walked with him, Pope John Paul II has welcomed him to Rome, Yasser Arafat has welcomed him to Beirut and he has slept in Prime Minister Begin's house in Israel. 

 

He said his wife Denise and he are but simple servant followers of Jesus. They pray for peace on earth, love in every heart and God's blessings upon all people.

 

In the 60s, he was ministering to hippies, Hell's Angels, runaways, addicts, prostitutes, flower children and would-be actors, dubbed the minister of Sunset Strip.

 

As a boy, his father managed a cotton farm in Northeast Louisiana near Oak Grove down the road from a tiny community he called Goodwill. Sometimes Arthur would drift with the water that was to be brought to the workers. His dad fussed. Arthur heard Jesus say to obey his dad and to realize that Jesus was training him to hear his voice and obey him so he would be able to go where Jesus was leading him.

 

At every step of Arthur's journey, the Lord showed which road to take, when to start walking, when to stop, when to drive and when to park.  He said it all begins with small, simple steps.

 

Traveling to Saudi Arabia with a cross is harder than carrying buckets of water in cotton fields, he said. The cross has a wheel because it would lose wood. They have varied from 110 pounds to 45 pounds.

 

It began when Jesus spoke to Arthur, not in an audible voice, but in his heart and mind. He said, “I want you to take the cross that is hanging on the wall in His Place and carry it across America.” The joy of the Lord washed over Arthur like ocean waves. Then the Lord spoke more. “I want you to take the cross onto the roadsides and streets to identify my message in the streets with the common man. I am going to put the gospel on television, on the radio, by your walking. I want you to bear witness to my life and my love, proclaim my peace in the streets.”

 

Soon afterward, 28-year-old Arthur was lying in a hospital bed and heard a doctor proclaim that he had an aneurysm and needed immediate surgery. Sometimes he became numb on much of the right side of his body.  This time a stroke had landed him in the hospital, leading to a battery of tests. However, he decided that he would rather die in the will of God than live outside of it. If he carried the cross, he would be at peace whether he lived or died. But if he stayed home, he knew he would rot inside from a mixture of doubt, fear and the knowledge that he had refused the call of God. Faith and reason had wrestled in his heart. Faith won and he would never look back.

 

Three conditions Arthur mentioned when walking were exhaustion, heat and traffic. He has survived auto crashes, snakes, baboons, elephants and crocodiles. He's slept in hammocks. The roadsides were littered with bottles, rocks, sticks and rubble. He learned that when you stumble on life's roadways, you want to fall into the arms of Jesus, not away from him. Fall into grace and love.

 

Arthur has found the cross to be a universal symbol of God's love that breaks down the barriers of language and culture. He witnessed people feeling the presence of the Lord. He says he is not holy or that the cross is, but the hand of God is upon the walk and people experience His glory as word spreads about it.

 

My favorite story was when he was in South Africa. He saw a man with no eyeballs. The man touched the cross in a tender and loving way from top to bottom. It was so moving that the entire audience wept. This blind man brought passion and freshness to the meaning of the cross. The man without eyes saw things most people are blind to. It was obvious whom he trusted. This man had already chosen to follow Jesus and he lived in the safety of his embrace.

 

Another woman was taking her last run before planning to drown herself in the sea until she saw the cross. Arthur said he will never forget what she then said: “Now I have life.”

 

In 1984, he was in Midland, Texas, and wrote in his journal: "A good and powerful day. Led Vice President Bush's son to Jesus today. George Bush Jr. This is great. Glory to God." He was preaching and W. was there. They spoke by phone some afterwards and saw each other in 1999 at a campaign fundraiser and prayed together like they had before.

 

He once told Jimmy Carter he needed to be up front about his faith in Jesus. Shortly after the Florida primary, Carter came around and said he was born again. Arthur was in Africa when he got a message from the Lord to run for President himself.  He believes his running had an impact on proving that voters want to know what candidates believe in their hearts about God. Are they followers of Jesus?  Do they try to apply the values of their faith in decisions?  Arthur did get one percent of the primary vote in Florida and New Hampshire, by the way.

 

Arthur met the South African ambassador who said his most treasured gift was a straw donkey because that is what our Savior rode in on. A lot of people talk about being upwardly mobile, but that day he and the ambassador could see that God wants servants to be downwardly mobile.

 

He said he always gave it his best in carrying the cross. He kept his shoulders back, head up, made eye contact and smiled.

 

Other highlights: God will deal justly with each person. If you hold on to tormenting words or deeds, it will destroy you.

 

Every time Arthur eats or drinks he says, "If there is anything in my body that should not be there, cleanse it. If there is anything I need that is not there, put it in and make everything work perfectly in Jesus' name."

 

I learned the word handi-capable.


Arthur lives in Littleton, Colo. He still carries the cross on special crosswalks in the U. S. and around the world. He has no problems with his feet, legs or back and no pain anywhere. He has seven children and 11 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter. His children have shared in the crosswalks in many nations.

 

Interesting facts:

 

Longest walk in a day - 72 miles in 24 hours (with help); 47 miles (alone)

 

Most apt country to be arrested in - USA

 

Most angry toward the cross - Amsterdam, Holland and Tetouan, Morocco

 

Greatest welcome to the cross - Papua New Guinea, Poland, Spain, India, Lithuania, Kiribati, Solomon Islands, Vanuatu, Guatemala & West Africa

 

Worst poverty - Chad; Mozambique, Djibouti, Ethiopia, India and Bangladesh

 

Most beautiful views - Mount Kilimanjaro, Kenya/Tanzania; Mount Cameroon, Africa; Mount of Olives facing Jerusalem; Sea of Galilee, looking toward Mount Hermon; Mount Sinai; Norwegian Coastline; Antigua; Guatemala; a Swiss valley with lake and mountains beyond Tierra del Fuego (Chile); Penguins nesting in Antarctica; Icebergs in Greenland, and Bronzal Pass in the Hindu Kush - Pakistan-Afghanistan

 

Most beautiful City - Jerusalem

 

A few historical places and moments with the cross - Washington, D.C. 1970, 1980; Olympic Stadium, Berlin, Germany; the Coliseum in Rome; The Pantheon in Athens, Greece; the pyramids of Egypt; Cebu City in the Philippines at Magellan's Cross; carrying the cross across the Panama and Suez Canals; the cross at the top of the world's biggest pyramid in Cholula, Mexico; October 31, 1987 Hollywood, CA completed the distance around the world at the equator 24,901.55 miles; China Wall and Red Square, Moscow; Cross above the walls of Babylon; North Korea; Completed every nation and major island group June 13, 2008 Zanzibar in Indian Ocean; Cross carried back to Hollywood to Grauman's Chinese Theatre for the premiere of the movie "The Cross"; Lifting the cross up at second base at Yankee Stadium, New York in front of 40,000 people.

 

Highest mountain climbed with the cross - Mount Fuji, Japan (12,388 ft) Bronzal Pass, Pakistan-Afghanistan border (18,200 ft - 5,547 M.)

 

Deepest into the earth cross carried - Carlsbad New Mexico (850 feet)

 

Lowest point below sea level cross carried - Dead Sea (1,200 feet)

 

Worst cold weather - Golan Heights, Syria-Israel; Rome to Assisi, Italy; Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada; Antarctica and Baltic Republics

 

Hottest temperature - Jordan Valley; Chad; Yemen, Iraq & Djibouti (135 degrees plus)

 

Coldest temperature - 20 degrees below in Nova Scotia, Canada

 

Worst food - Squid in ink in Spain, monkey leg in Africa, rat soup in Belize. He has eaten iguana meat and eggs and fish eye balls.

 

Best food - Freshwater shrimp in El Salvador and fresh salmon in Finland

 

Cross stolen - Christmas Day 1979, Assisi, Italy

 

Best road pets - El Salvador del Mundo (parrot), Central America; Basco (rabbit), Spain; Belfast (dog), Northern Ireland; Loretta (parrot) South Africa - USA; HRH Windsor (dog) U.S.

 

Biggest animal scares - Green Mamba snake in Ghana; baboon attack in Kenya; elephant chase in Tanzania; crocodile attack in Zimbabwe

 

Number of people prayed for, blessed or saved at the Cross - Many millions but only God knows

 

Worst jail - Concord, New Hampshire

 

Biggest crowd preached to: Half a million, Atlanta Rock Festival, 1970; Washington for Jesus Rally, half a million, 1980

 

 

 

 

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My season of giving lasts all year

December is all about giving. But there are needs all year. I'll never forget a quote from a friend's father, "Christmas lasts all year if you let it."

I made a 2014 New Year's resolution to do a giving act every week of the year. I posted these on Facebook every Monday. Honestly, they were very minor. But I did it. Did not miss a week.

After mulling whether to make this public after my brother-in-law asked why I wanted to post them, I decided that "this little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine" and hope that others would follow suit. Not for a pat on the back. It forced me to do it by posting.

Throughout the year, quotes about giving spoke to me. Here are some:

No one has ever become poor by giving. Anne Frank

If everyone gives a thread, the poor man will have a shirt. Russian proverb

The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions. Confucius

Back where I come from, there are men who do nothing all day but good deeds. They are called phila… er, phila… er, yes, er, Good Deed Doers. The Wizard of Oz

It's a scientific fact that gratitude reciprocates. Matthew Oscar

You only have what you give. It's by spending yourself that you become rich. Isabel Allende

I'm a human doing, not a human being. Dolphus Weary

I loved this saying: Fit me for your holy work.

Everyone should read the full text of the commencement speech of Naval Adm. William H. McRaven given at the University of Texas. “What starts here changes the world,” he said, adding that if everyone changed the lives of just ten people—and each one of those folks changed the lives of another ten people, then in five generations—125 years—the Class of 2014 will have changed the lives of 800 million people. Go one more generation and you can change the entire population of the world—8 billion people.

Sermons spoke to me. Jesus moved toward the sick and suffering, dying and those with limitations, the outcast and scorned, said Father Karl Daigle. Jesus did not come to be served, but to serve. 

In Latin Mass, the final words emphasized our Christian call to “mission.”

I love a sign at a local church that says "Our worship is over, but the service has only just begun."

I read Hebrews 10:24 and Matthew 25:40. A friend said Matthew 5 can influence the world for good.

I studied the panhandling story in the Minneapolis newspaper when I was visiting there. There is a website, www.giverealchange.org, that has tips on how to deal with aggressive solicitation. Minneapolis has a campaign for people to stop giving, instead writing a check to a nonprofit, which is dedicated to such long-term solutions as housing subsidies, job training (many panhandlers have just gotten out of prison) and mental health programs. Most aren't aggressive, but embarrassed and hungry. One said he makes around $35 a day. Items that help are granola bars, oranges and apples. If you step on the gas to avert these people, the problem disappears in the rearview mirror. This was food for thought.

I read "Love, Skip, Jump."  The result of God's love for us was that He gave, author Shelene Bryan says. She shares an exercise where the reader fills in the blanks. Shelene so loved ? that she gave the money she would have spent at Starbucks to pay for  _______. For Deb so loved her friend that she gave every Friday morning to study the bible with her. For Candace so loved her community that she gave of her time to serve as a guest chef at a homeless shelter. Write your own five statements. For ______ so loved _______ that he/she gave ________.

I was shocked, as was she, that 2.6 billion people lack basic sanitation. Forty-three percent of the people on the planet do not have indoor plumbing. Eighteen percent of the world population does not have access to an improved water source. Only 12 percent of the world population has a computer and only eight percent have Internet connections. According to the Miniature Earth Project, if you slept in a bed last night, keep your food in a refrigerator and keep your clothes in a closet, then you are richer than 75 percent of the entire world population. The majority of the world lives on $2 a day. Yet some of us walk around saying we are broke.

As Bryan suggested, I made a G-love bag (fits in your Glove box), therefore, the name. In it I put socks, a poncho, lip balm, water and a mini first aid kit. I'm supposed to give it to a homeless person, but I have not seen one. A poignant story demonstrates that homeless people don't get mail. Smile when you do, whether it is a bill or junk.

She says some of us are missing heaven by 18 inches, the distance between our heads and our hearts. Bryan states that we make a loan to God by showing kindness to the poor. We can rest assured that He will repay us in ways that count for eternity.

You'd think someone with ALS might be seeking assistance, but this gentleman featured on Steve Hartman's segment on CBS discussed Big Ideas for the Greater Good.  The BIGG Challenge is a first of its kind effort to help make sure the most creative ideas not only happen but are also celebrated and shared. Kids took homeless women to dinner, for example. GiveBackFilms on youtube shows free car repairs for the adoptive parents of two special needs daughters, $100 bills to homeless people and paying for someone's gas.  They hope the videos start a movement and feature one young person saying, "I want to make enough money to give back."

Northwestern State University partnered with the 1 of 7 concept. The Washington D.C. nonprofit organization was founded by NSU alumnus Kip Patrick. It encourages people to do one service activity each week and make it a lifestyle choice. Patrick says he and his wife founded 1 of 7 after they took a trip around the world, visited more than 70 countries and did service projects most every place they went. He said anybody can help others. 

Jon Bon Jovi, a somebody, uses his brand to benefit others, not himself. He doesn't sit in front of the mirror and think, "Aren't I wonderful?" he says. He often speaks about the Power of We and it takes the power of One to move the We and he is that One.

I heard J.C. on the Kidd Kraddock show say he was behind someone who couldn't afford something and he said, "Oh. Look. You dropped $100." The $100 being his own. I heard something on KLOVE wanting to "give until I feel it or notice it."

A University of Louisiana at Lafayette graduate buys signs from homeless people and creates art. That's a win/win. 

A group of ladies anonymously donate cake and ice cream to a home for troubled boys for their birthdays.

Arianna Huffington, like her or not, said the metrics of success are health, wisdom, wonder and giving.

I'd like to end with a poem from Adelaide Proctor. It's not the thing you do, dear, it's the thing you leave undone, that gives you the bitter heartache, at the setting of the sun.  The tender word unspoken, the letter you did not write, the flower you might have sent, dear, are your haunting ghosts at night. The stone you might have lifted out of your brother's way, the bit of heartfelt counsel you were hurried too much to say. The loving touch of the hand, dear, the gentle and winsome tone, that you had not time or thought for, with troubles enough of your own. These little acts of kindness, so easily out of mind, these chances to be angels, which even mortals find.

Still on the list that I didn't get to do: toiletries for the Rescue Mission, something for Shriner's Hospital, flowers to an anonymous person, pick up litter, Joy Fund, Operation Bright Holiday for an airman, books for children, quarters at a laundromat, snacks for delivery people, smile at the first five people I see somewhere and write a letter to someone's manager.

Your turn! I don't think you'll lack for ideas, but just in case, there is an app called RIPIL that will give you deeds, quests and competition.  Here's my list, minor as it is, which included 12 medical-related issues, 10 random acts, six religious events, five environmental, four  veteran and clothing (tied), three educational, two friend causes, two law enforcement and one each for homeless, adoption, military and food.

1 Coats for Kids

2 Military donations for Operation Support Our Troops

3 Men's shirts to Salvation Army

4 National Geographic magazines to Fuller Housing

5 Books for Centenary College

6 Valentines to veterans

7 Masses said

8 Wrote a seminarian

9 Proof a book for a friend

10 Extra tips

11 Prayed for 54 random people I know

12 Eye Glasses for Lions Club

13 Police magnet bought to honor slain cop

14 Donated gift certificate to a friend

15 Salvation Army clean up day

16 Shredded items brought in for Earth Day

17 Old pills brought to DEA

18 Cash for schools box tops turned in

19 Postal food drive

20 Garbage men gift

21 St. Jude ticket bought

22 Donations for transitional veterans home brought to church

23 Prayer texts sent to friends

24 Blue bunny.com/wish for sick children and they donate $1 to Make A Wish

25 G(love) box kept in car for homeless person

26 Fibsorfacts.com quiz $1 to National Stroke Association

27 Liking Dreyer's on Facebook shared $5 to Operation Smile

28 Left cash in bible at hotel

29 Returned gobs of plastic bags to grocery

30 Club foot donation

31 tie bought Gatorade at Brookshire's for firefighters

31 tie sent card to Danny Nickerson in Massachusetts

33 Left coins in Coke machine

34 Paid for someone behind me at Starbucks

35 Made game for shoebox with Altoids

36 Lotto tickets for random people

37 Several phone books recycled

38 Susan Komen donation for friend

39 Bought raffle ticket to support Alzheimer's research

40 Comfort Kit for hospitalized children. They get a stuffed star, bracelet, stickers, stress ball, crayons, prayer card and personalized nametag.

41 Donated a Thomas bible for Nepal

42 Donated at Wendy's for adoption

43 Donated to Emily Anthony's classroom

44 Thanked veterans with correspondence

45 Sent postcard to blind boy who was collecting

46 Operation Christmas Child

47 Donated blankets in honor of the med school resident and wife killed in the car wreck 10 years ago

48 Small-change-project

49 Praying for confirmation candidate

50 Coats for Bless the Gym

51 Dress for Susan's Closet

52 Wheelchair Foundation donation

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Grief tramples holiday timetables

It's almost impossible to ignore the holidays. They start earlier each year. In order for you to cope after losing a loved one, it’s very important to shift your focus on how your deceased loved ones lived, not how they died, on your blessings, happy times and positive goals. Can you deliberately change your sad thoughts?

When Fred Goldman was asked how his life has changed 20 years after the murder of his son Ron, along with Nicole Brown Simpson, Goldman said he has learned how to adjust, to change, but not change.

The parents of the couple killed in a car wreck 10 years ago were quoted in the newspaper as saying, "You can become bitter or you can step back and allow God to rescue you." They live with an eternal perspective and are more compassionate and aware of the pain of others. Do things that really matter, they said.

Coach Jimmy Johnson said he opened up some emotions when his mother died that he'd kept guarded. He said he knows himself better. Her death has mellowed him and put his priorities in perspective.

The gentleman who dines with the picture of his deceased wife reminds us that people are like candles. "At any moment, a breeze can blow it out, so enjoy the light while you have it."

As America's Most Wanted host John Walsh, who lost his son, Adam, said, "If his song is to continue, then we must do the singing."  You can help redeem your loved one's death by using it to help others like Walsh did.

Joel Osteen decided one day not to recall his father's death every time he went to his mother's house. "I'm not reliving that night. I'm not feeling those sad and depressing emotions," he said. Osteen chose to change the channel and started remembering fun times together.

Meanwhile, sad times can occur for those grieving at awkward encounters at the grocery store or glancing at a rerun that reminds you of a cozy winter afternoon.

You have the choice to gaze into the fireplace, let breezes ruffle your hair, let music find a path to your heart, feel a stream tickle your toes, walk an old path or to find a place to scream or an imaginary room in which to stuff your fears.

Think of your emotions as bubbles in a glass, the beverage being your emotional body, suggests Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors magazine. As you experience a feeling, it floats up through your body. When it reaches the surface, it pops and evaporates into the air. If you put a lid on it, you are blocking negative emotions, you'll have a buildup and it will block joy and peace. Another TAPS article said that in popsicle language, you thaw at your own rate.

Holiday choices may include modifying your decorations, opening gifts on the usual day or another time, changing the usual dinner location, going out of town or writing in a journal your hopes for the new year.

You can decide to keep the clothing that smells like your loved one or give it away. It's up to you to decide what is essential for a connection. Should the clothing be made into a quilt? Should you wear his red T-shirt every Friday to support the troops?

Maybe you are keeping something secret. A little girl with a special Teddy bear, a dad with his son's small treasure in a drawer, a widow wearing her husband's bathrobe. No one thinks anything of keeping yearbooks, their preserved wedding dress or first corsage, pair of baby shoes or top of the cake.  It's OK.

Here are some celebrity examples of coping with grief:

Kidd Craddick's daughter drank her father's favorite wine on his death anniversary.

Roma Downey will imagine her mother sitting in a corner, lovingly reassuring her like she did when she was in ballet lessons.

Melissa Rivers said her mother would want us all to return to laughing soon.

Olympic hockey player Lyndsey Fry carried a deceased team member's jersey with a note. "I made it, Liz, to the gold medal game. And you're here with me in spirit. It reminds me every day how hard I've worked and how much her memory has been there with me."

A Utah lady who lost her husband in a mall shooting that severely injured her son was determined to get her family's life back. She told her kids, "We were happy before, and we are going to be happy again." She decided to help others with an effort called Circle The Wagons. They have made 1,000 kits to send to others who have been affected by violent crimes that include a Can of Comfort filled with tips (96-hour survival guide), crucial phone numbers and a key--one side labeled strength and the other hope. Spending hours thinking about yourself isn't productive, she said, letting grief hold you up. Surge forward.

The mother of an LSU student killed in a car wreck said her mind worked 24/7. "You think of something you should have done, could have done, why couldn’t this have happened. It’s just non-stop.”

A young man who lost his grandfather said he regretted not spending enough time to know about his childhood, what drove him, all the things that he went through before he was a grey-haired man.  He said the grandfather had the privilege of knowing him so well, but he didn't know those things about his grandfather. Learn about each other now.

Another son said what he missed about his dad was probably the things the dad would miss, too. Like seeing graduations, jobs, birthdays. I still write to him on March 19, every year, this young man said.

A 7-year-old gave a eulogy and sang it the day of her grandfather's funeral. "I'm giving God the whole day and I'm not going to stop." she said. Oh, to have her attitude.

In a Reader's Digest "Words of Lasting Interest" column, the author writes, "Always go to the funeral." Her father taught her that as a child. She recalls the  3 p.m. funeral of her father and the "inconvenienced" crowd there for her.

The friend who says the wrong thing is made of dearer stuff than the one who stays away is the way author Barbara Kingsolver puts it.

Those grieving return to work and make it through the day because it has less memories of everything they have loved and lost. Being home is harder. Grief is profoundly lonely and each small gesture connects the person grieving to humanity. I read about a person who sent her friend who had a loss a card every two weeks for the first year. Another friend has texted every Thursday at 6 p.m. for three years a simple "Love you."

A doctor who wrote about his wife dying of cancer speaks of having plenty of people to do things with, but nobody to do nothing with.  Help those in grief delight in something beautiful to notice.  Cherish these things that are the "stuff" of life, says a story about Lisa Beamer's teacher on the death of her spouse.

I am a member of a daily list serve. One of the writers made grief cards with daily prompts on them and sent them to all family members after a relative's death.  Things like "tell your children a story about your loved one today" or "release a balloon in your loved one's honor." Plan a ritual activity--a church service, hike, kites flown in memory, hymns sung, a special dinner, volunteer effort or a commemoration of the deceased person's hobby or passion.

You CAN do something to help people grieving become flourishing and thriving once again rather than the disorganized, distracted, distraught, distressed, disoriented person they likely are.

 

Fargo for Vacation? You betcha

Don't let North Dakota be just a "flyover state." In my quest to visit all 50 states, I took what I thought was a nothing trip and suddenly made it all feel worthwhile. I flew into Minneapolis on a Saturday and drove approximately 3.5 hours west to South Dakota, then up to Fargo.

I did a little research before I left, but stopped at the Fargo Convention and Tourist Bureau, amazed that it was open until 6 p.m. on a Saturday. That's where the Celebrity Walk of Fame is, with hand and footprints in cement of visitors to Fargo. It includes 120 actors, authors, musicians and athletes. The first was Louisiana's own, Al Hirt. I was the first to put a pin on their world map for being a visitor from Shreveport.

Inside, you can have your picture made with a wood chipper in a corner devoted to the Fargo movie. Afterwards, you can go to www.thewoodchipper.org to see your photo appear on Facebook. Thank goodness, because I didn't even bring my real camera.

There is also a Wood Chip Marge statue at the Fargo Theatre. Actually, the movie only showed two scenes of Fargo and was not filmed there. Residents don't talk in an accent as exaggerated as the movie depicted; in fact, it seems like I was asked to repeat myself a lot.

Another stop was the Roger Maris Museum in West Acres Shopping Center. Maris shattered Babe Ruth's 1927 home run record with 61 homers in a single season in 1961 on the final day of the regular season. The Maris record stood for 37 years. He grew up in Fargo and led the American Legion team to the state championship.

You can watch a video there on an actual Yankee Stadium seat. The film shows Maris and Mickey Mantle were nearing Ruth's record. Pressure and the media got to Maris and he actually asked to sit out a game while approaching the record. A humble man, when he broke the record, teammates pushed him from the dugout back onto the diamond. Maris did not want to go back to Yankee Stadium for former player days, feeling he did not leave in good terms, until George Steinbrenner asked what it would take and Maris asked for a donation for a baseball field. You can see Maris bats, balls, uniforms, awards and magazine covers. There is no admission charge. Maris is buried in Fargo.

At the mall, I noticed Fargo has a Macy's. It also has a Cinnabon's, zoo and Amtrak station. Three things Shreveport-Bossier does not. I drove by the Fargodome arena that seated 17,000 for the Paul McCartney concert that night. This town of 104,000 has an arena larger than ours and attracted McCartney!

The North Dakota State University Bison play in the Fargodome. The 14,000 students see colorful bison artwork around town and beautifully landscaped streets with hanging plants. In the downtown area, many people were out and about around 7 p.m. It didn't get dark until close to 10 p.m.

It was 84 degrees the day I arrived and 54 degrees the Sunday I left. I'm sure it is much different in the winter, but I actually thought I could live in Fargo in the summer.

Nothing against southeast South Dakota, but I spent the night in Fargo, so that is where I wandered around and became impressed enough to write this. If you don't want to visit, maybe you want to work there. The newspaper had 11 pages of want ads.

There is nothing Podunk about Fargo. Just like we don't want people to think we are all from the swamp or hunt ducks, don't judge Fargo from the movie. It is nothing like you think.

P.S. If you save North Dakota for last, there is an official club. Best for last!

 

 

Minneapolis Paper Gets Five Stars

I spent 1.5 hours intently reading the Minneapolis StarTribune on a plane ride home from there on Sunday, July 13. A gentleman in the waiting area at the airport said I could glance at his, but he was taking it home to his wife. I saw so many stories that I wanted to read that I went and bought my own.

With no affinity towards Minneapolis, I was mesmerized and fascinated by many of the stories, first off, the upcoming All-Star game being played there and reading that Major League Baseball booked 14,000 rooms for the event.

A former LSU AgCenter employee and being from Shreveport where the Haynesville Shale has changed the area, I next read about the rail backups that have put Minnesota crops in jeopardy because of the North Dakota oil boom using the trains. Very pertinent information.

While my New Year's resolution was to do something caring every week, I studied the panhandling story. There is a website, www.giverealchange.org, that has tips on how to deal with aggressive solicitation. Minneapolis has a campaign for people to stop giving, instead writing a check to a nonprofit, which is dedicated to long-term solutions such as housing subsidies, job training (many panhandlers have just gotten out of prison) and mental health programs. Food for thought.

Device dangers was on the front page. One of every four crashes in Minnesota is caused by drivers not watching the road. The story showed victims and quoted that in two or three seconds, drivers travel hundreds of feet, so texting is like driving blindfolded. The article noted that you can get pulled over six times and get the same fine, unlike Driving While Intoxicated. Statistics show 2,189 drivers were cited for texting last year, up from 1,718. I harp on Don't Text and Drive.

Now an assistant to a state senator in Louisiana, it stuck out that Minnesota was one of the last to mandate seat belt laws and lower the blood alcohol limit. There doesn't appear to be a groundswell of public opinion that is pushing their Legislature toward banning cell phones in construction zones and other areas.

Then there was a Jesse Ventura update that insulted me. Ventura was appearing in court to sue the estate of a book's author for defamation. The author, who was later murdered, said Ventura was knocked out in a bar fight after making remarks about President Bush and dead Navy SEALs. The writer says, So the guy who sang Werewolves of London while wearing a boa thinks his reputation has been harmed? I had not known the former governor made reporters (I used to be one) wear nametags that said "media jackals." In his own book, Ventura once intimidated some people who had on "Harvard Sucks" T-shirts. He was teaching there, but how? He didn't complete junior college, the writer said.

I never thought about the Hamptons' gap between rich and poor until I read the story in the paper. Nannies, gardeners and pool maintenance people are out of work there in the winter. Forty percent of students are on a free or reduced lunch. Doctors and nurses share homes owned by the hospital because they can't afford their own. People commute three hours because they cannot afford to live there. Never thought about that.

Other stories were about curfews for youth, facial features might determine the length of your life, a travel story about airport cancellations and one on how to be nice to newcomers. Apparently, Minnesotans are a tight knit bunch.

But their stories drew this outsider in. I am so impressed with the StarTribune. But I did think its insert to try to get subscribers that featured mosquitoes all over the place was dumb. We don't like mosquitoes in Louisiana.

St. Maria Goretti

 

St. Maria Goretti's story combined with my notes from talk by Father Carlos Martins

 

Born in Corinaldo, Ancona, Italy, on Oct. 16 1890; Maria's farmworker father died of malaria from a mosquito bite and her mother had to struggle to feed her children. Maria, 11, somewhat became the mom of her five siblings.

 

In 1902, a 19-year-old neighbor, Alexander, grabbed her from her steps and tried to rape her. When Maria said that she would rather die than submit, Alexander began stabbing her with a metal file. He stabbed her nine times, even the spine, then five more in her intestines. Doctors were scared of peritonitis setting in, the same thing that can happen when your appendix bursts. She was dehydrated in the hospital and wanted water. A priest came and told her the Lord begged for water on the cross. Doctors thought the water would come out of the holes of her body and induce peritonitis. The priest asked her to offer up her thirst for sinners. Doctors performed surgery with no anesthesia because they thought it might induce cardiac arrest. She never complained or cried.

 

As she lay in the hospital, she forgave Alexander before she died and wanted him in heaven with her. Her death didn't end her forgivness, however.

 

Alexander was captured and sentenced to 30 years. He was unrepentant until he had a dream that he was in a garden. Maria was there and gave him 14 white lilies. When he woke, he was a changed man, filled with light and the Holy Spirit and became contrite, repenting of his crime and living a reformed life. When he was released after 27 years he went directly to Maria's mother to beg her forgiveness, which she gave. "If my daughter can forgive him, who am I to withold forgiveness," she said. They went to Christmas Eve Mass together. She adopted him.

 

When Maria was declared a saint in 1950, Alexander and the mom were there in the St. Peter's crowd to celebrate her canonization. She was canonized by Pope Pius XII for her purity as a model for youth. The crowd was the largest to date there. The priest believes Alexander will be canonized.

 

She is called a martyr because she fought against Alexander's attempts at sexual assault. However, the most important aspect of her story is her forgiveness of her attacker -- her concern for her enemy extending even beyond death. Her feast day is July 6. St. Maria Goretti is the patroness of youth and for the victims of rape.

 

Prayer cards have been made of Maria. This priest went to see a man about to have an amputation due to a spider bite and placed the prayer card on the body part. Thirty minutes later he did not need surgery.

 

There is a church named after her in her hometown, very close to the sea. Three times it had to be raised due to high waters. But with her body there, it has not sunk.

 

This story takes place all because Maria forgave.

Louisiana's not so bad

Louisiana's not so bad except in education and prison rates and poverty. We got a booklet on state comparisons from the Taxpayers Network and highlighted those of importance:
No. 1 in incarceration rate. Ugh.
No. 6 in poverty rate at 29.6 percent. Only 15 percent in N.H.
No. 4 in senior citizen poverty rate at 24.2 percent. Only 13.1 in Utah.
No. 29 in annual per capita income at $37,021.
No. 49 in cigarette excise tax rates at 36 cents. $4.35 in New York.
No. 44 in spirits excise tax at $2.50 per gallon. Zero in N.H. and $26.70 in Washington.
No. 39 in gas tax at 20 cents. It's 49 cents in N.Y. and 8 cents in Alaska.
No. 45 in monthly wireless tax at 11.33 percent.
No. 38 in patents issued with 369. California has 30,750.
No. 30 in public teacher salaries at $49,634. $72k in N.Y.
No. 5 in residents without a high school degree at 18.1 percent.
No. 49 in those with post high school education at 47.6 percent. It's 66.9 percent in Colorado.
No. 41 on ACT scores.
No. 6 on spending per capita on Natural Resources and Parks and Recreation.
No. 18 on highway spending per capita.
No. 23 on annual miles driven per capita at 9,806. It's more than 16,000 in Wyoming.
No. 21 in highway fatalities.
No. 49 in liability and litigation systems.
No. 8 in spending by state government on police per capita.
No. 17 in state correctional spending per capita.
No. 6 on violent crime rate.
No. 23 on property crime rate.
No. 21 on total arrests rate.
No. 28 on public welfare expenses per capita at $1,420.